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Giving credit where credit is due Print E-mail
Wednesday, 27 July 2016

Although we are reading different Parshiot this Shabbat in Israel and outside of Israel, the Haftarot are the same, as this week’s Haftara is the first of the three Haftarot leading up to Tisha B’Av which prophecize the destruction of Jerusalem.

When Menachem Begin was elected as Prime Minister of Israel in 1977, he used a quote from this week’s Haftara (Yirmiyahu 1:1-2:3) changing around the last few words of the quote in order to give his wife credit for his victory: “I remember for your sake the kindness of your youth, the love of your bridal days, your following after me in the wilderness in a land sown with mines.”

The full quote from Yirmiyahu 2:2 states: “Go and proclaim in the ears of Jerusalem saying, ‘Thus said God: I remember for your sake the chesed (kindness) of your youth, the love of your bridal days, your following me into the wilderness, in a land not sown.’”

Although most of the Haftara prophecizes destruction, we are left on a positive note. Due to the merits of B’nai Yisrael at the time of the exodus from Egypt, God will always forgive the Jewish people.

What was the loving kindness that B’nai Yisrael did in their youth?

According to Rashi, it is that they followed Moshe and Aharon from a settled land to a wilderness without anything but their belief in God.

Radak points out that the good merits that B’nai Yisrael had back then will help them in the future.

We see how B’nai Yisrael followed Moshe in Shmot 15:22 “Moshe led B’nai Yisrael away from the Reed Sea and they went out into the desert of Shur…”

Nehama Leibowitz adds that because of the loving kindness that B’nai Yisrael did back then, the nation will never fully be destroyed.

Shadal brings a different approach explaining that it is not only the loving kindness that the Jewish people did, it was also the loving kindness that God did for them by taking care of them in the desert. In this way, we see that chesed is reciprocal, the person who is giving is also receiving and vice versa.

These three weeks between the 17th of Tamuz and the 9th of Av are the perfect opportunity for us to emulate God and our forefathers and focus on performing acts of loving kindness which will in turn lead us to the rebuilding of the Beit HaMikdash.

 
Should Your Brothers Go Out to War While You Settle Here? Print E-mail
Wednesday, 16 July 2014
In Parshat Matot, the tribes of Reuven and Gad ask Moshe (Bamidbar 32:5): “If we have found favor in your eyes, let this land (the east bank of the Jordan) be given to your servants as a possession. Do not bring us over the Jordan(to the Land of Israel proper).”
 
Moshe answers: “Should your brothers go out to war while you settle here?”
 
In other words: When the other tribes go out to conquer the rest of the Land of Israel do you expect to sit at home?
 
Many Israelis have been called up in the past few weeks for Tzav Shmoneh, where they have to report immediately for miluim (army reserves) due to the dangerous situation that we are currently facing.
 
Those of us who are not fighting in the army do not just sit back and continue on with our regular lives as if nothing is happening. Many people in Israel as well as well as in Chutz La’Aretz (outside of Israel) are going out of the way to do what they can to help.
 
Over 1000 cookies for our soldiers have been baked and distributed this week. Toys and games have been collected for children in the south of Israel who have been spending most of their time in the miklatim (bomb shelters). Clothing and supplies as well as food and fresh pizza pies have been disturbed to our soldiers who are stationed near the border of Gaza. Families in Jerusalem are hosting children from the south to help give them a vacation from the rockets. The Jerusalem Tennis Center camp is admitting children from the south at no charge and the list goes on…
 
Doron Hanin z”l, 37, and Israeli father of three was killed on Tuesday evening by Gaza mortar fire at the Erez crossing while delivering food and drinks to the soldiers who were awaiting a possible ground invasion into the Gaza strip.
 
Doron was a model of what the tribes of Gad and Reuven described in Bamidbar 32:32: “We will cross over Chalutzim (as pioneers) before God.”
 
May we hear good news in the coming days.
 
The Battles We Fight Each Day Print E-mail
Friday, 22 July 2011

In Parshat Matot, Bamidbar 31:21, after the soldiers returned from the war with Midian the pasuk says: “Elazar HaCohen said to the soldiers who came to the war (habaim lamilchama): This is the statute of the Torah which God commanded Moshe…”

 

Why does it say that the soldiers “came to the war” if the war with Midian was already over? Shouldn’t it say that the soldiers “came from the war”?

 

Rabbi M.M of Kotzk answers that the physical war with Midian was over, but now they will begin to embark on a new war, a spiritual war against the inclination to transgress the mitzvoth of the Torah.

 

Yitav Lev adds that after a victory the soldiers may become haughty and therefore they will have to pay special attention to work on fighting this haughtiness. In the next few psukim, we learn about purifying utensils (hagalat kelim). Just as we have to remove the impure and unkosher from the utensils, so too do we have to take out any haughtiness in our character.

 

Shaar Bat Rabim answers the question of the Ramban of why we weren’t commanded in purifying utensils after the battles of Sichon and Og which took place previously. The answer is that in the battle against Midian, Moshe sent 12,000 soldiers who were carefully selected based on their righteousness. There was therefore more of a chance for them to get haughty. By being taught about purifying their vessels, they received the covert message that they must remove negativity and pollution from their souls.

 

Each victory against evil is a time to rejoice, but we must remember that the salvation is from God and instead of becoming haughty, we should look for more places to help continue to make the world a better place.

 

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Morality and the IDF Print E-mail
Friday, 17 July 2009

In Parshat Matot (Bamidbar 31:3), we read “Moshe spoke to the people saying: ‘Hechaltzu me’itchem anashim letzava’, Arm men from among yourselves for the army that they may go against Midian…”

 

Rav Moshe of Koznich comments on the words ‘Hechaltzu meitchem’: There are many dangers that are connected with war: the cruelty of war, vengeance, lust for robbing and abuse. The soldier must remove himself from personally getting involved in these situations and he should remember that the reason that they went to war was because God wanted them to take revenge against the Midianites for getting B’nai Yisrael involved in idol worship and other immoral acts.

 

Rashi explains that the meaning of the word ‘anashim (people)’ is ‘tzadikim (righteous people)”. The soldiers to be chosen must be righteous people.

 

In the State of Israel today, we have many Dati-Leumi, National Religious soldiers who choose to participate in a Hesder program where they spend time learning in a Yeshiva combined with serving in the IDF. These soldiers are good people who often go on to serve in the elite units. As well, the soldiers in the IDF go through rigorous training on issues of sensitivity and morality, leading them to remove themselves as much a possible from any opportunity of abuse.Unfortunately, the media preys on the few IDF soldiers who are accused of going off track in their duty.

 

The armies of the countries of the world should aspire to reach the heights of our Israel Defense Forces.

    
 
With Honor Comes Responsibility Print E-mail
Thursday, 24 July 2008

Parshat Matot (Bamidbar 30:2-3) begins with the words “Moshe spoke to the tribal leaders (Roshei HaMatot) of B’nai Yisrael saying: ‘This is the word that God has commanded. If a man makes a vow to God or makes an oath to obligate himself, he may not profane his word (lo yachel dvaro). He shall do all that he said.”

The Chatam Sofer asks the following question: Why is the Parsha concerning vows and promises (including the words “he may not profane his word”) mentioned to the heads of the tribes? He answers that most of the time the heads of the tribes, the leaders, are the ones who vow and promise and don’t follow through on their promises. The leaders are the ones who have to change their ways and be careful about what they say and promise, therefore the warning was directed at them.

We see this all too often throughout the world. Politicians will make promises in order to get elected and then once elected they either do not follow through or they do exactly the opposite of what they promised. However, as it says in the Parsha “He may not profane his word. He shall do all that he said.” We must expect more and we should raise our standards.

Rashi states that the tribal leaders were given the special privilege of being taught the laws of vows before the rest of B’nai Yisrael. The tribal leaders were also granted the honor of being able to nullify vows individually (usually three men were needed to annul a vow).

With honor comes responsibility.

As many congregations recite each Shabbat in the Prayer for the Welfare of the Government “May God sustain them and protect them from every trouble, woe and injury, may He rescue them and put into the heart of all of their counselors compassion to do good with us…”

 
All Jews are Responsible for One Another Print E-mail
Thursday, 12 July 2007

In Parshat Matot, the tribes of Reuven and Gad approach Moshe with a request (Bamidbar 32:5): “If we have found favor in your eyes, let this land (the east bank of the Jordan) be given to your servants as a possession. Do not bring us over the Jordan (to the Land of Israel proper).” Moshe’s reaction was: “Should your brothers go out to war while you settle here?”

According to Tiferet Yehonatan, Moshe is asking: “When your brothers who are living in the Land of Israel go to war, when the enemies attack Israel, should you remain seated in your comfortable homes in the Diaspora?” The war that protects Israel is not just for those who live in Israel, it is the fight for the existence of all of the Jewish people, wherever they may be in the world.

This week marks a year since the second war in Lebanon. Last year we saw many Jews who live in the Diaspora come to Israel during the war and help out any way that they could. They didn’t just sit back and say “I don’t live there so it isn’t my problem”. Jews living in Israel who were not directly affected by the war also went out of their way to help those who were directly affected including hosting total strangers for weeks in their small apartments.

Today, there is much that can still be done to help. Many residents of Sderot are still afraid to go back home. Many residents of Gaza who were evacuated two years ago still do not have a permanent place to live. One third of Israeli children live under the poverty line and unfortunately the list can go on and on.

Let’s hope that we will see true peace in Israel and that our worst problems will be which beaches have jellyfish and which synagogue (out of thousands) will we choose to pray at on the high holidays.