Yosef’s loving kindness |
Parshat Vayechi, Breisheet 50:7-9
lists everyone who went up to C’naan for Yaakov’s funeral: Yosef went up to bury his father;
and with him went up all of Pharaoh’s servants, the elders of this house, and
all the elders of the land of Egypt. And all Yosef’s household, his brothers
and his father’s household. Only their little ones, their sheep and their cattle
did they leave behind in the land of Goshen. With him also went up chariots and
horsemen. It was a very imposing camp. Later, in Breisheet 50:14 we read: Yosef returned to Egypt, he and his
brothers, and all those who went with him, to bury his father, after he had
buried his father. In verses 7-9 and in verse 15,
Yaakov’s burial is ascribed mainly to Yosef. In the Talmud, Sotah 9b we read in
the Mishna: Yosef merited to bury his father and
none of his brothers was greater than he. As it is stated (Breisheet 50:7-9):
“Yosef went up to bury his father…and up with him went both chariots and
horsemen.” Yosef was rewarded measure for measure for his good deed, for who
was treated with as much honor as Yosef, that none other than Moshe attended to
him? The Talmud, Sotah 13a asks: Why was Yosef the central figure in
Yaakov’s burial? If Yosef would not have been involved would the brothers not
have been involved with it? But we see that they were in fact involved as it
says in Breisheet 50:13: “His sons carried him to the land of C’naan and buried
him…” The Talmud answers: The other brothers said among
themselves, “Let Yosef take the leading role in the burial. Our father Yaakov’s
honor is better served by royalty than by commoners.” Rashi points out that Yosef was
royalty as he was second in command to Pharaoh. Yosef later had the honor of having
his bones brought over by Moshe, the “gadol,” the most important person at the
time of the exodus. The difference in the two stories is
that Yaakov wanted to be buried immediately and therefore he said to Yosef
(Breisheet 47:29) “...deal kindly and truthfully with me. Please don’t bury me in Egypt.” He did not want to be buried in Egypt, even for a small amount of
time. Yosef’s bones on the other hand were
temporarily buried in Egypt until the exodus. As Yosef was the second in command
to Pharaoh, it made sense for him to be in charge of Yaakov’s funeral. Yosef
was able to make sure that the burial would be taken care of immediately and
therefore Yaakov left it in Yosef’s hands, rather than in the hands of his
brothers. |